Entrepreneurial Quotes of the Day:
“Outstanding people have one thing in common: an absolute sense of mission.” ~Zig Ziglar
“What mankind wants is not talent; it is purpose.” ~Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton
Hello Fabulous Women!
I am passionate and committed about the value and power of coaching, and here’s why.
One of the most common things I hear from the women who contact me about my business coaching services is that they are suffering from a lack of clarity. And I do mean suffering – I can hear it in their voices.
They say, “I just wish I knew what I really wanted.”
And to make matters worse, they are usually blaming themselves for not knowing what they want – there’s this feeling that they are supposed to know what they want, and so they think there must be something wrong with them if they don’t. (There isn’t!)
Interestingly, sometimes even those women who tell me they do know what they want are not truly any more clear. I know that because, when I probe a bit further with them, they often can’t give me any clear details about what they want. They say that they want more money, more success, less stress, but they can’t create a clear picture of what that would look like or what it means to them.
I strongly believe that this lack of clarity is the biggest obstacle in most people’s lives, including their business lives. It’s the “something missing” that would make all the difference in the world if it were present.
I also believe that what creates clarity, and the only thing that creates clarity on a lasting basis, is Purpose. Having a strong sense of personal purpose, knowing not only what you want but why you want it, feeling connected to what matters to you the most in life – that creates a clarity and power that can withstand anything that life throws at you.
Sometimes when I talk about this with prospective clients, it resonates with them immediately. They seem to recognize that what I’m talking about is truly what has been missing for them. Others, frankly, shy away from the idea of having a personal sense of purpose. They say that there must be some other, better, easier way to get clear and know what they really want.
Maybe they are right, but if so, I have yet to see the evidence of it. Everything I have experienced as a coach and in my life tells me that there is nothing more essential and foundational to having a fulfilling and successful life than having a strong sense of purpose. It’s a declaration to yourself and to the world of why you are here on this planet.
That is why my coaching – yes, my business coaching – involves helping each and every client create and declare a powerful and succinct personal statement of purpose. And I promise you this: any business you create or career you pursue that is created out of that sense of personal purpose will be a business or career that will give you not only success but also joy and fulfillment in your life.
I created my own statement of purpose nearly three years ago. My purpose in life is to inspire and empower people to discover and fulfill their purpose in life, with passion, ease and joy!
Now let me tell you something else: I created that statement of purpose approximately 30 seconds before I declared that I was a coach. After thinking about being a coach for years, that clarity of purpose is what gave me the power to declare it and make it so.
And that clarity of purpose is the same reason why I had my first three coaching clients in less than a month after that declaration. Nothing else changed. I didn’t suddenly have more training or preparation, I didn’t know anything more than before. The only difference was, I created and declared my purpose, and that transformed me from someone who was stuck thinking about something – for years – into someone who was unstoppable in making it happen.
And here’s something else for you to know. Less than nine months later, if you typed “women’s business coach” into Google, you would have found me on the first page, at the #9 spot. Not too shabby! Today, by the way, I’m at #1 on Google for those keywords, and have been for over a year. That’s the Power of Purpose, in life and in business.
So my question for each of you today is, What Is Your Purpose? Why are you here? No one else in the world has the right to declare an answer to that question except you. How will you answer it?
I know that some of you have an answer to that question, because I was working with you when you created it! Others may have a partial answer, and some may feel that they have no idea at all.
If you, like many women I talk to, are feeling that painful lack of clarity, I hope that this has helped you to see what is missing, and to know that do you have it in your power to create it for yourself.
If I can do it, so can you. You can create it for yourself, but it doesn’t have to be by yourself – I know I couldn’t have created my purpose on my own. It took someone really pushing me and coaching me, believe me! That’s what coaching provides, and that is literally what I am here on this planet to do. For you.
If you are feeling that “something’s missing,” then take on answering this question, “What Is My Purpose?” Whether you do it through coaching or not, consider that your life does depend on it. Not your existence – after all, many people exist for many years without ever knowing their purpose. Having a life is much more than having an existence.
And if you have ever thought about coaching but never taken action, make today the day. Take advantage of my free 45 minute coaching call. When you really think about it, isn’t it a bit absurd to spend a lifetime here on this earth and never declare for yourself why?
Have a fabulous, purposeful day,